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Friday, March 31, 2017

Twelve Steps to a Happier Life

Al-Anon family support groups provide a way to overcome anxiety. Could they help you?

Among the many issues families face, addiction is one of the most difficult. An estimated 47% of the adult U.S. population suffers from at least one addiction, according to a 2011 study published in the Journal of Evaluations & the Health Professions.

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Wednesday, March 22, 2017

Ending or Beginning?

Starting over in the second half of life often takes a leap of faith and a shift in perspective.

The kids are grown. The nest is empty. Careers are winding down. And, for a growing number of couples at this major crossroads in life, marriage also comes into question. A 2016 report by the National Center for Family & Marriage Research revealed that between 1990 and 2014 the divorce rate doubled among adults over the age of 50. For those over the age of 65, divorces tripled. Making major changes in mid-life may be intimidating, but it can also become an opportunity for starting anew.

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Wednesday, March 15, 2017

Who Gets the... Pets?

Coming to terms with custody of family pets

You want the wedding china; he wants the oriental rug. No problem. But if you’re a pet-owning couple who’s divorcing, sorting out custody of your beloved pets can become a major point of contention. Fortunately, divorce law is picking up speed when in comes to rulings on who gets Fido and Fluffy.

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Tuesday, March 7, 2017

Taxing Matters - How Uncle Sam Weighs in On Divorce

The end of a marriage brings about many changes in life. One you may not have considered is how divorce will affect the way you file your annual income tax return. It’s important to be aware of tax considerations when drafting your divorce agreement so you’re not caught off guard   when April 15 rolls around.

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Thursday, February 23, 2017

Friend Me - How to reclaim relationships during and after divorce

For many couples, divorcing can also mean a shift in relationships with mutual friends. Ironically, just at a time when you need friends, you may find yourself lacking support. Retaining existing friendships and forging new ones becomes more important than ever as you move forward with your life. Consider these five suggestions for sustaining and building your network of friends.

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Monday, February 6, 2017

Assessing Your Options: Divorce Mediation Could A Third-Party Negotiator Make Your Divorce Easier?

Divorce is not one size fits all. Although the Hollywood version of divorce often depicts couples fighting it out before a judge, 90% of all divorces are settled out of court. A variety of factors — such as whether or not minor children are involved, alimony is being disputed, or when there are hi-net worth assets — may influence the way you go about divorce.  Depending upon the situation, mediation is one means of resolving issues that divorcing couples may find useful.

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Monday, January 30, 2017

Strings Attached: Financial Abuse Defined

Four Strategies to Put Into Action

Although it often goes undetected, over one in 12 Americans experiences financial abuse.[1] It is often tied to cases of domestic violence, but can also occur in situations in which there is no other violence or abusive conduct. According to the National Network to End Domestic Violence, “financial abuse, while less commonly understood, is one of the most powerful methods of keeping a survivor trapped in an abusive relationship and deeply diminishes her ability to stay safe after leaving an abusive relationship.” [2]

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Thursday, January 19, 2017

Why Social Media May Not Be Your Friend

Guidelines for divorcing in the digital age

For most of us, social media is a daily part of our lives. We love to share everything from images of cute pets to our political rants. Even under the best circumstances, texts, email and social media posts may be misconstrued or taken out of context. But when you’re in the process of divorce, considering what you send —before you post— becomes even more important.

“Going through a divorce always results in heightened levels of personal scrutiny.

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Tuesday, January 10, 2017

Should You Stay, Or Should You Go? Listening to your motives may provide insight

When it comes to making the decision to divorce, no one can answer that question for you. The fact that nearly one half of all marriages end in divorce indicates that there are many reasons to part ways. Research shows that infidelity, physical, emotional or financial abuse, and addiction top the list of reasons why couples split.[1] But the impetus to make any decision comes down to one key factor: motive.

Exploring the rationale behind your desire to make life changes reveals a lot.

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Friday, December 16, 2016

Navigating Divorce with Children

Five ways to ease the long-term effects

When it comes to how your divorce will affect your children, no one has a crystal ball. But there are some actions you can take to help ease the transition. Experts have found that children's psychological reactions to their parents' divorce vary in degree dependent on three factors:

  • The quality of their relationship with each of their parents before the separation;
  • The intensity and duration of the parental conflict;
  • The parents' ability to focus on the needs of children in their divorce.[1]

Although you can’t control your child’s response to divorce, keeping these three factors in mind, you may mitigate the impact by focusing on the following aspects of family life that are within your control.

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Wednesday, November 30, 2016

When Should I Talk to an Attorney?

Taking action doesn’t have to signal divorce. It means taking charge of your life.

For most people, divorce is a difficult decision that comes after a period (often years, even decades) of unhappy marriage. Even still, the act of meeting with a divorce attorney can feel overwhelming. For many, that meeting symbolizes the end of the relationship — or the demise of an ideal. In fact, meeting with a knowledgeable attorney can be the beginning of a new start — whether you decide to divorce or not.

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